The past year has been a real eye-opener for me, both personally and professionally. It’s made me take a step back and reflect on what I can change not only for my business but also for myself. I’ve been re-evaluating the kind of clients I want to work with, the energy I want to cultivate, and the direction I want to take moving forward.

Medical gaslighting occurs when a healthcare provider dismisses, minimizes, or questions your symptoms in a way that makes you doubt your own experience. This can leave patients feeling unheard, frustrated, or even ashamed of their own bodies. It can delay proper diagnosis, treatment, and healing, and may contribute to increased anxiety or stress around medical care.

Through my work in massage and healing, I’ve seen how important it is to talk about consent, permission, and boundaries. These themes come up often in my work. I see that many people struggle with establishing boundaries, whether it is saying no, asking for what they need, or recognizing when someone else is crossing a line. For me, this goes beyond theory; it's something I observe with people daily.

I do not accept walk-ins. Here’s why: My sessions are 90 minutes to 2 hours long. When I’m with a client I give my full attention to their care and I do not step away from a session to answer the door or phone. Accepting walk-ins would create time pressures and interruptions that reduce the quality of treatment for everyone.

Over time, afternoon traffic from the nearby local Christian Academy school has created challenges for both my clients and my business. Many clients have shared frustrations about the lack of available parking around 2:30 to 3:45 pm, as parents often use our commercial lot despite management’s requests not to. Unfortunately, since the lot is public use under Texas law, parents are legally allowed to park there. The only exceptions are if someone is parked improperly...

Your health and well-being deserve expert care. Choosing a qualified massage therapist ensures you receive safe, professional, and nurturing treatment that truly supports your body and mind. It’s important to be informed and cautious when selecting a massage provider to avoid unlicensed or illicit establishments.

If you’re part of the kink community, you know that some activities can be physically and emotionally intense. From muscle soreness after impact play to joint stiffness from extended positions, your body often needs some extra care. Massage therapy offers a safe, professional, and judgment-free space to help your body recover, release tension, and feel more balanced. This is about supporting your well-being, not sexual activity, so you can truly relax and recharge.

Kink-informed care is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves access to safe, professional, and compassionate services without judgment or bias. Unfortunately, there is still a stigma when it comes to people with kinks seeking care. Too often, assumptions or personal biases from professionals create unnecessary barriers that prevent individuals from receiving the support they truly need.

My massage therapy office is a safe haven. I understand that people sometimes come into the therapy room carrying heavy burdens. Venting is natural and allowed. I also respect healthy debate, but there is absolutely no room here for hate, whether directed at the LGBTQ+ community, any race, religion, culture, or demographic.

In an ideal world, I would never need to write about this, but I’ve had clients arrive for their massage appointments after drinking. Some believe a drink will help them relax before their session, but the truth is that alcohol and massage are not a safe combination.

Taking care of your breast health is one of the most valuable things you can do for yourself—whether you are a man or a woman. Despite their importance, the breasts and chest area are some of the most overlooked regions during massage therapy. Often this is due to social stigmas or simple discomfort around addressing breast tissue.