It has been a week since the passing of my beloved friend, Charrissa Hudson Farmer (known as Char in our circle of friends). Every day presents a blend of minor progress and instances where the sense of loss remains equally profound. Nevertheless the grief is still fresh and raw. Her absence is still surreal, and the deep loss is something that will continue to be felt for a very long time. I can only imagine how her children and family are feeling. It is an extreme loss, and